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<channel><title><![CDATA[Alix Nichols, author of romantic comedies and fantasy romance - Blog]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.alixnichols.com/blog]]></link><description><![CDATA[Blog]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 05 Jun 2026 12:40:50 -0700</pubDate><generator>Weebly</generator><item><title><![CDATA["A Duchess with a Secret" Book Trailer]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/a-duchess-with-a-secret-book-trailer]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/a-duchess-with-a-secret-book-trailer#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Sun, 24 May 2026 18:35:46 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/a-duchess-with-a-secret-book-trailer</guid><description><![CDATA[If you&rsquo;ve been following my adventures in the Montevor Royals saga, you already know I have a soft spot for this quirky little principality perched on the edge of France, Italy, and Switzerland. It&rsquo;s a place where ancient castles hide modern secrets, where royals are equal parts protective and sinfully charming, and where feisty heroines keep them on their toes while the whole country holds its breath. From the very first spark in The Boss Prince to the delicious twists in A Duchess  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph"><font size="3"><font color="#2a2a2a">If you&rsquo;ve been following my adventures in the Montevor Royals saga, you already know I have a soft spot for this quirky little principality perched on the edge of France, Italy, and Switzerland. <br /><br />It&rsquo;s a place where ancient castles hide modern secrets, where royals are equal parts protective and sinfully charming, and where feisty heroines keep them on their toes while the whole country holds its breath. <br /><br />From the very first spark in <em><strong>The Boss Prince </strong></em>to the delicious twists in <em><strong>A Duchess with a Secret </strong></em>(which lands on Amazon and Kindle Unlimited this coming Sunday, May 31st!),</font><span style="color:rgb(42, 42, 42)">&nbsp;the Montevor royals have&nbsp;stolen my heart (and, I hope, yours too).&nbsp;</span><font color="#2a2a2a">I&rsquo;ve loved every minute of letting these characters stumble into love, dodge royal scandals, and fight for their happily-ever-afters. &#128149;&#128081;<br /><br />What I adore most is how each story peels back another layer of Mont &Eacute;vor&rsquo;s world&mdash;without ever taking itself too seriously.<br /><br />And to get your juices flowing, I have a little video teaser for you.&nbsp;Grab a cup of tea (or something stronger), settle in, and give it a watch!</font></font></div>  <div class="wsite-youtube" style="margin-bottom:10px;margin-top:10px;"><div class="wsite-youtube-wrapper wsite-youtube-size-auto wsite-youtube-align-center"> <div class="wsite-youtube-container">  <iframe src="//www.youtube.com/embed/2sYrzwI2hwQ?wmode=opaque" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe> </div> </div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Boss Prince (Montevor Royals, book 1)]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/the-boss-prince-blog-post]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/the-boss-prince-blog-post#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 08 Jun 2021 14:35:22 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/the-boss-prince-blog-post</guid><description><![CDATA[What if you fell for your charming new boss... only to discover he&rsquo;s a real prince from a hidden European kingdom racing against time to save it?Welcome to The Boss Prince, the first book in my Montevor Royals saga!Children&rsquo;s entertainer Lucie Laborde has a strict no-dating-bosses policy&mdash;until she accidentally falls for Maximilian Valois-Montevor. He&rsquo;s not just handsome and loaded. He&rsquo;s also heir to a principality that&rsquo;s about to expire like a bad coupon unles [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph"><font size="3"><font color="#2a2a2a">What if you fell for your charming new boss... only to discover he&rsquo;s a real prince from a hidden European kingdom racing against time to save it?<br /><br />Welcome to <strong style=""><em>The Boss Prince</em>, </strong>the first book in my Montevor Royals saga!</font><br /><br /></font><font color="#2a2a2a"><font size="3">Children&rsquo;s entertainer Lucie Laborde has a strict no-dating-bosses policy&mdash;until she accidentally falls for Maximilian Valois-Montevor. He&rsquo;s not just handsome and loaded. He&rsquo;s also heir to a principality that&rsquo;s about to expire like a bad coupon unless its royals track down a set of antique keys, all while dodging a villain named Kurt Ozzi (yes, really).<br /></font><br /><font size="4">&#8203;</font></font><span style="color:rgb(42, 42, 42)">One of my favorite parts of writing this book was creating Lucie and Max&rsquo;s very first love scene. It was directly inspired by my favorite scene in the classic film </span><em style="color:rgb(42, 42, 42)"><strong>How to Steal a Million </strong></em><span style="color:rgb(42, 42, 42)">with Audrey Hepburn and Peter O&rsquo;Toole (pictured below).<br /><br /></span><font size="3"><font color="#2a2a2a">Just like I always wondered what a kiss between Mr. Darcy and Lizzy Bennet would be like (and ended up writing Find You in Paris), I&rsquo;ve also always secretly wondered about that tender kiss in a broom closet of a Parisian museum between Hepburn&rsquo;s and O&rsquo;Toole&rsquo;s characters.<br /><br />What if it had grown more passionate and gotten completely out of control? What if they had been unable to stop? Would they have done something as crazy as making love in that tiny storage room? What kind of lovemaking would that have been?<br /><br />Those tantalizing questions are responsible for the first love scene in The Boss Prince.&nbsp;&#128081;<font style="">&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></font><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">All in all, the Montevor Royals saga brings you Bridgerton&rsquo;s sparkling romance and family drama along with The Da Vinci Code&rsquo;s clever conspiracy thrills.<br /><br />And at the heart of it all is one delicious question: can two people who absolutely should not kiss stop long enough to save a nation?</font><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">&#128149;</font></font></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-medium " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.alixnichols.com/uploads/1/8/0/7/18073067/published/how-to-steal-a-million.png?1779692965" alt="Picture" style="width:454;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[4 Reasons Why Women Love Sports Romance and Athletes]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/4-reasons-why-women-love-sports-romance]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/4-reasons-why-women-love-sports-romance#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Fri, 24 Feb 2017 20:02:30 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/4-reasons-why-women-love-sports-romance</guid><description><![CDATA[#1: Yummy BodsNot all sports are equal in this regard. Think chess.&nbsp;Not that there's anything wrong with chess-players. I actually happen to have a thing for them, and I've written a romcom novella whose hero plays chess for a living. You can sign up for my newsletter and get a free copy here.In my humble opinion, swimming gives men the very best body shape of all. It flatters even the pear-shaped ones.&#8203;But the lucky guys who start out V-shaped? They turn into something out of this wo [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph"><font color="#2a2a2a"><strong><font size="4">#1: Yummy Bods</font></strong><br /><br /><font size="3">Not all sports are equal in this regard. Think chess.&nbsp;</font></font><font size="3"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Not that there's anything wrong with chess-players. I actually happen to have a thing for them, and I've written a romcom novella whose hero plays chess for a living. <a href="https://www.alixnichols.com/freebies.html" target="_blank">You can sign up for my newsletter and get a free copy here.</a></span><br /><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">In my humble opinion, swimming gives men the very best body shape of all. It flatters even the pear-shaped ones.<br /><br />&#8203;But the lucky guys who start out V-shaped? They turn into something out of this world.<br /><br />Exactly like the three French water-polo players on the covers of my <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0753H7VQM?&amp;linkCode=ll2&amp;tag=zansale35-20&amp;linkId=eabc8321e8ce089e7a05f10f1403f80b&amp;language=en_US&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl" target="_blank"><strong><em>Playing to Win</em> </strong>series.</a></font></font></div>  <div><div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div> 				<div id='798391616679089674-gallery' class='imageGallery' style='line-height: 0px; padding: 0; margin: 0'><div id='798391616679089674-imageContainer0' style='float:left;width:33.28%;margin:0;'><div id='798391616679089674-insideImageContainer0' style='position:relative;margin:2px;'><div class='galleryImageHolder' style='position:relative; width:100%; padding:0 0 75.08%;'><div class='galleryInnerImageHolder'><a href='https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0753H7VQM?&linkCode=ll2&tag=zansale35-20&linkId=eabc8321e8ce089e7a05f10f1403f80b&language=en_US&ref_=as_li_ss_tl' target='_blank'><img src='https://www.alixnichols.com/uploads/1/8/0/7/18073067/pwf-en-2026-s.jpg' class='galleryImage' _width='533' _height='800' style='position:absolute;border:0;width:50.02%;top:0%;left:24.99%' /></a></div></div></div></div><div id='798391616679089674-imageContainer1' style='float:left;width:33.28%;margin:0;'><div id='798391616679089674-insideImageContainer1' style='position:relative;margin:2px;'><div class='galleryImageHolder' style='position:relative; width:100%; padding:0 0 75.08%;'><div class='galleryInnerImageHolder'><a href='https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0753H7VQM?&linkCode=ll2&tag=zansale35-20&linkId=eabc8321e8ce089e7a05f10f1403f80b&language=en_US&ref_=as_li_ss_tl' target='_blank'><img src='https://www.alixnichols.com/uploads/1/8/0/7/18073067/pfk-en-2026-s.jpg' class='galleryImage' _width='533' _height='800' style='position:absolute;border:0;width:50.02%;top:0%;left:24.99%' /></a></div></div></div></div><div id='798391616679089674-imageContainer2' style='float:left;width:33.28%;margin:0;'><div id='798391616679089674-insideImageContainer2' style='position:relative;margin:2px;'><div class='galleryImageHolder' style='position:relative; width:100%; padding:0 0 75.08%;'><div class='galleryInnerImageHolder'><a href='https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0753H7VQM?&linkCode=ll2&tag=zansale35-20&linkId=eabc8321e8ce089e7a05f10f1403f80b&language=en_US&ref_=as_li_ss_tl' target='_blank'><img src='https://www.alixnichols.com/uploads/1/8/0/7/18073067/pd-en-2026-s.jpg' class='galleryImage' _width='533' _height='800' style='position:absolute;border:0;width:50.02%;top:0%;left:24.99%' /></a></div></div></div></div><span style='display: block; clear: both; height: 0px; overflow: hidden;'></span></div> 				<div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><font color="#2a2a2a"><strong style="font-size: large;">#2: Drive</strong><br /><br /><font size="3">Athletes share this trait with another beloved romance hero, the wealthy businessman. Top-level athletes are just as smart and driven as the next billionaire. And that combination? We love it.<br /></font></font><br /><font color="#2a2a2a"><strong style="font-size: large;">#3: Discipline and sacrifice</strong><br /><br /><font size="3">Athletes are men of action. A good athlete doesn&rsquo;t second-guess himself and doesn&rsquo;t give up when things get tough, much like a good soldier. His mission is to succeed or help his team succeed, and he gives it everything he&rsquo;s got. And that, my friends, is sexy.<br /></font></font><br /><font color="#2a2a2a"><strong style="font-size: large;">#4: Team spirit</strong><br /><br /><font size="3">Even in solitary sports like running or wrestling, athletes from the same country pull together during world championships and the Olympic Games. But in team sports the collective energy of a band of hunks working in perfect sync is almost palpable. It&rsquo;s contagious. Their defeats dampen our spirits. Their victories lift us up. They inspire us. And they remind us that the sky really is the limit for those who dare to dream.</font></font><font size="3"><br /><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">Those four qualities are precisely why I had such fun writing my <em style=""><strong>Playing to Win </strong></em>sports romance&nbsp;series. Each book follows one of those driven, disciplined, ridiculously fit athletes as he meets the woman who turns his world upside down.<br /><br />Would you agree with my points above?</font></font></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Noah's passion]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/noahs-passion]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/noahs-passion#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 05 Jan 2017 22:11:20 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/noahs-passion</guid><description><![CDATA[The third book in the Darcy Brothers series, The Perfect Catch (Noah&rsquo;s story), is coming along nicely.Below is a pic that contains a clue about the hero&rsquo;s passion. Can you guess what it is?&#8203;And&nbsp;no,&nbsp;you smart mouth, Noah&rsquo;s passion doesn&rsquo;t lie in looking gorgeous while lathering his scalp. But it does have something to do with&nbsp;water.         Noah plays&nbsp;water polo!If you don&rsquo;t know what water polo is, google it and prepare to swoon over pictur [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph"><font color="#3f3f3f" size="3">The third book in the Darcy Brothers series, <em style=""><strong>The Perfect Catch </strong></em>(Noah&rsquo;s story), is coming along nicely.<br /><br />Below is a pic that contains a clue about the hero&rsquo;s passion. Can you guess what it is?<br /><br />&#8203;And&nbsp;<em style="">no,</em>&nbsp;you smart mouth, Noah&rsquo;s passion doesn&rsquo;t lie in looking gorgeous while lathering his scalp. But it does have something to do with&nbsp;<strong style="">water</strong>.</font></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.alixnichols.com/uploads/1/8/0/7/18073067/published/shower.png?1779611268" alt="Picture" style="width:261;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><font color="#3f3f3f" size="3">Noah plays&nbsp;<strong style="">water polo!</strong><br /><br />If you don&rsquo;t know what water polo is, google it and prepare to swoon over pictures of hunks wearing nothing but speedos and bonnets.</font></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-medium " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.alixnichols.com/uploads/1/8/0/7/18073067/published/bonnet-square.jpg?1779611289" alt="Picture" style="width:273;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%">Photo by Hossam el-Hamalawy</div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><font size="3"><strong style="color: rgb(63, 63, 63);">Correction</strong><span style="color: rgb(63, 63, 63);">: The appropriate term is &ldquo;headgear&rdquo;, and its purpose is</span><span style="color: rgb(63, 63, 63);">&nbsp;to protect the players&rsquo; ears.<br /><br />But, really, it&rsquo;s a bonnet. &nbsp;</span></font></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[RAPHAEL'S FLING: INSPIRATION BOARD]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/raphaels-fling-inspirations]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/raphaels-fling-inspirations#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Fri, 25 Nov 2016 12:42:21 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/raphaels-fling-inspirations</guid><description><![CDATA[I&rsquo;ve been having way too much fun putting together this mood and inspiration board for Raphael&rsquo;s Fling &mdash; and I finally had to share it with you!         In my head, I&rsquo;ve cast a younger Chris Pine as Raphael d&rsquo;Arcy (that wicked grin, that effortless charm&hellip; yes, please &#128527;) and Eva Green as Mia. She's elegant, mysterious, and quietly brilliant. In other words, perfect for my bookish and secretive heroine.Does this casting click for you, or do you picture  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph"><font color="#2a2a2a" size="3">I&rsquo;ve been having way too much fun putting together this mood and inspiration board for Raphael&rsquo;s Fling &mdash; and I finally had to share it with you!</font></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a href='https://www.pinterest.com/AuthorANichols/raphaels-fling' target='_blank'> <img src="https://www.alixnichols.com/uploads/1/8/0/7/18073067/screen-shot-2016-11-25-at-1-53-11-pm.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><font color="#2a2a2a" size="3">In my head, I&rsquo;ve cast a younger Chris Pine as Raphael d&rsquo;Arcy (that wicked grin, that effortless charm&hellip; yes, please &#128527;) and Eva Green as Mia. She's elegant, mysterious, and quietly brilliant. In other words, perfect for my bookish and secretive heroine.<br /><br />Does this casting click for you, or do you picture Raphael and Mia completely differently?&nbsp;</font></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Behind the scenes...﻿]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/behind-the-scenes]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/behind-the-scenes#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 22 Mar 2016 17:18:25 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/behind-the-scenes</guid><description><![CDATA[Want to see some real-world places, things and sentient beings that inspired the Bistro La Boh&egrave;me books?&nbsp;Here we go!   	 		 			 				 					 						      Bare necessities       Père Tanguy's Shop on rue Clauzel, which Lena visits in "What If It's Love?"    					 								 					 						      My thinking couch       I often write in cafes. This is one of my favorites in Paris.    					 							 		 	    	 		 			 				 					 						      A real cafe on Rue Cadet where the fictional bistro La Bo [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font color="#2a2a2a" size="4">Want to see some real-world places, things and sentient beings that inspired the <strong><em>Bistro La Boh&egrave;me</em></strong> books?&nbsp;<br /><br />Here we go!</font></div>  <div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:49.999999999999%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.alixnichols.com/uploads/1/8/0/7/18073067/3987678_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%">Bare necessities</div> </div></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.alixnichols.com/uploads/1/8/0/7/18073067/3314295.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:314;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%">P&egrave;re Tanguy's Shop on rue Clauzel, which Lena visits in "What If It's Love?"</div> </div></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:49.999999999999%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.alixnichols.com/uploads/1/8/0/7/18073067/published/9304676.jpg?1779614962" alt="Picture" style="width:347;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%">My thinking couch</div> </div></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.alixnichols.com/uploads/1/8/0/7/18073067/1943054.jpg?357" alt="Picture" style="width:357;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%">I often write in cafes. This is one of my favorites in Paris.</div> </div></div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>  <div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:49.999999999999%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.alixnichols.com/uploads/1/8/0/7/18073067/2420988.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:356;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%">A real cafe on Rue Cadet where the fictional bistro La Boh&egrave;me is located.</div> </div></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:49.999999999999%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.alixnichols.com/uploads/1/8/0/7/18073067/1458649568.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%">"Cafe Terrace at Night" by Vincent Van Gogh that Anna admires in "Winter's Gift"</div> </div></div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>  <div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.alixnichols.com/uploads/1/8/0/7/18073067/591147.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:373;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%">Le dog, puppy days</div> </div></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:left"> <a> <img src="https://www.alixnichols.com/uploads/1/8/0/7/18073067/6368893_orig.jpg" alt="Marta Arias performing" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%">Marta Arias (here pictured in Seville, Spain) inspired Flamenco dancer Pilar in "Amanda's Guide to Love"</div> </div></div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Amanda's Guide to Love is here!]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/amandas-guide-to-love]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/amandas-guide-to-love#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Sun, 14 Feb 2016 19:51:33 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/amandas-guide-to-love</guid><description><![CDATA[One uptight career woman down on her luck. One free-spirited blackjack player. One wild, no-strings night that changes everything&hellip;   	 		 			 				 					 						     					 								 					 						          					 								 					 						     					 							 		 	   &#8203;Gorgeous, non? &#8203;I mean both the dance and the man, who's none other than the hyper-talented Spanish flamenco dancer&nbsp;Joaqu&iacute;n Cort&eacute;s.Just like&nbsp;Cort&eacute;s, the swoonworthy hero of Amanda&rsquo;s Guide t [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><em></em><span style="color:rgb(15, 17, 17)"><font size="4">One uptight career woman down on her luck. <br />One free-spirited blackjack player. <br />One wild, no-strings night that changes everything&hellip;</font></span><em></em></div>  <div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:15.455598478108%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div class="wsite-spacer" style="height:50px;"></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:69.456477557985%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div class="wsite-youtube" style="margin-bottom:10px;margin-top:10px;"><div class="wsite-youtube-wrapper wsite-youtube-size-auto wsite-youtube-align-center"> <div class="wsite-youtube-container">  <iframe src="//www.youtube.com/embed/u_d9JbcCJgI?wmode=opaque" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe> </div> </div></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:15.087923963907%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div class="wsite-spacer" style="height:50px;"></div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font color="#3f3f3f" size="3">&#8203;Gorgeous, <em style="">non</em>? <br /><br />&#8203;I mean both the dance and the man, who's none other than the hyper-talented Spanish flamenco dancer&nbsp;Joaqu&iacute;n Cort&eacute;s.<br /><br />Just like&nbsp;Cort&eacute;s, the swoonworthy hero of <em style=""><strong>Amanda&rsquo;s Guide to Love</strong>&nbsp;</em>Kes Moreno<em style="">&nbsp;</em>is a Gypsy. More specifically, he is a member of the Gitano subgroup concentrated in Spain and southern France. Many French Gitanos are still nomadic, perpetuating a lifestyle and a culture that date back millennia.<br /><br />Van Gogh painted these Gitano&nbsp;<em style="">caravans</em> near Arles in 1888.</font></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.alixnichols.com/uploads/1/8/0/7/18073067/2051135.jpg?1455466468" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font color="#3f3f3f" size="3">The picture below shows modern Gitan caravans parked in the same area. The technology has changed, but the way of life of the <em style="">gens du voyage</em> (traveling people), as they are officially referred to in France, has remained the same.<br /><br /><em style="">Always together, always on the move.&nbsp;</em></font></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.alixnichols.com/uploads/1/8/0/7/18073067/6180831_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:444;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font size="3"><font color="#3f3f3f">Amanda Roussel, the reluctant heroine of this romcom, is prejudiced, self-confident and ambitious. She can't imagine having a relationship&nbsp;</font><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">--</span><font color="#3f3f3f"> let alone a future&nbsp;</font><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">--</span><font color="#3f3f3f"> with a Gitano man, no matter how charming he is and regardless of how amazing their one-night stand was...</font><br /><br /><font color="#3f3f3f">The trouble is, Kes won't give up without a fight. Resourceful and enterprising, he comes up with an unconventional plan to win Amanda's heart.<br /><br />Among other things, the aforementioned plan involves a practical guidebook, <span>a non-venomous spider,&nbsp;</span>a Gypsy christening, a pair of highly symmetrical shoulders, three consecutive pacts, one challenge, and a Garfield joke.&nbsp;<br /><br />Can a crazy plan like that ever work?<br /><br />You'll have to read the book to find out.&nbsp;<br /><br /><strong>EARLY REVIEWS</strong></font><br /><br /><font color="#3f3f3f"><em><span>"Kes makes me want to go find a gorgeous Gypsy for a summer fling!" </span></em></font><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">&mdash;&nbsp;</span><font color="#3f3f3f"><em><span>Ann Omasta<br /><br />"The book&nbsp;full of funny situations and spiced with amusing tidbits, but it is deeply looking into human feelings and what makes people tick." </span></em></font><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">&mdash;&nbsp;</span><font color="#3f3f3f"><em><span>Kacmor<br /><br />"A&nbsp;heartwarming story. The characters filled the book with friendship and love." </span></em></font><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">&mdash;&nbsp;</span><font color="#3f3f3f" style=""><em style="">S. Pippins</em></font></font></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Woo-hoo! I won!]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/woo-hoo-i-won]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/woo-hoo-i-won#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Sun, 13 Dec 2015 21:38:02 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/woo-hoo-i-won</guid><description><![CDATA[A month ago, I submitted my newest novel, Amanda&rsquo;s Guide to Love, to Kindle Scout, an Amazon contest where readers decide which books get published by Kindle Press.&nbsp;(Well, technically, the decision is made by Kindle Press editors, but readers&rsquo; votes play a crucial part).&nbsp;Today, I&rsquo;m delighted to announce that Amanda&rsquo;s Guide to Love was selected.         Janine Savage and Jen Matera of Write Divas edited this book. Kim Killion of The Killion Group made the cover.A [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font color="#3f3f3f" size="3">A month ago, I submitted my newest novel,<strong style=""><em> <em>Amanda&rsquo;s Guide to Love</em>,</em></strong> to <strong style="">Kindle Scout</strong>, an Amazon contest where readers decide which books get published by Kindle Press.&nbsp;(Well, technically, the decision is made by Kindle Press editors, but readers&rsquo; votes play a crucial part).&nbsp;<br /><br />Today, I&rsquo;m delighted to announce that <em style="">Amanda&rsquo;s Guide to Love</em> was selected.</font></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.alixnichols.com/uploads/1/8/0/7/18073067/1187861.jpg?335" alt="Picture" style="width:335;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font color="#3f3f3f" size="3">Janine Savage and Jen Matera of <a target="_blank" href="http://writedivas.com" style="">Write Divas</a> edited this book. Kim Killion of <a target="_blank" href="http://thekilliongroupinc.com/" style="">The Killion Group</a> made the cover.<br /><br /><em style="">Amanda&rsquo;s Guide to Love</em> will be available for sale early next year, hopefully in January (<a target="_blank" href="http://www.amazon.com/author/alixnichols" style="">follow me on Amazon</a>&nbsp;to be informed of the release date).</font></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.alixnichols.com/uploads/1/8/0/7/18073067/7840562.jpg?227" alt="Picture" style="width:227;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font color="#3f3f3f" size="3">A HUGE THANK YOU to everyone who supported me. <em style="">Hip hip hip hurrah!</em>&nbsp;Champagne all around!&nbsp;</font></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Cyril's songs]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/cyrils-songs]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/cyrils-songs#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2015 21:41:09 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/cyrils-songs</guid><description><![CDATA[ 	 		 			 				 					 						          					 								 					 						  Since&nbsp;Falling for Emma&nbsp;was published, readers have been saying they wished they could hear Cyril&rsquo;s songs. Believe me, I wish I could hear them too . . . that is,&nbsp;in real life,&nbsp;and not just in my head.The best I can do for you at this juncture is to excerpt some of the lyrics featured in different&nbsp;Bistro La Boh&egrave;me&nbsp;books, and point you to a couple of singer-songwriters whose musical univers [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:44.545454545455%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a href='https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00S4WH4DC?&linkCode=ll2&tag=zansale35-20&linkId=206c73817db023904e72fc16c73fc505&language=en_US&ref_=as_li_ss_tl' target='_blank'> <img src="https://www.alixnichols.com/uploads/1/8/0/7/18073067/2164655.jpg" alt="Falling for Emma" style="width:216;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:55.454545454545%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font size="3"><font color="#3f3f3f">Since&nbsp;<strong><em><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00S4WH4DC?&amp;linkCode=ll2&amp;tag=zansale35-20&amp;linkId=206c73817db023904e72fc16c73fc505&amp;language=en_US&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl" target="_blank">Falling for Emma</a></em></strong>&nbsp;was published, readers have been saying they wished they could hear Cyril&rsquo;s songs. Believe me, I wish I could hear them too . . . that is,&nbsp;<em>in real life,&nbsp;</em>and not just in my head.<br /><br />The best I can do for you at this juncture is to excerpt some of the lyrics featured in different&nbsp;<em>Bistro La Boh&egrave;me</em>&nbsp;books, and point you to a couple of singer-songwriters whose musical universe and style are the closest to Cyril&rsquo;s.</font><br /><br /><font color="#3f3f3f">Let&rsquo;s start with the singers.</font></font></div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font size="3"><font color="#3f3f3f" style=""><strong style="">B&eacute;nabar</strong> is the French chanson star who taught himself to play the piano at the age of twenty-five and then began to write beautiful songs. He performed them in bars and nightclubs and toured nonstop until success came in the late 1990s.</font><font color="#3f3f3f" style="">&nbsp;The song below is one of my favorites. It&rsquo;s about a family house (the title translates as &ldquo;Four Walls and a Roof&rdquo;), but what it <em style="">really</em> talks about is the impermanence of all things and the tragic beauty of life.</font></font></div>  <div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:73.376623376623%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div class="wsite-spacer" style="height:10px;"></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:26.623376623377%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div class="wsite-spacer" style="height:10px;"></div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font size="3"><strong style=""><font color="#3f3f3f" style="">Hozier</font></strong><font color="#3f3f3f" style=""> is a young Irish musician whose breakthrough 2013 single, &ldquo;Take Me to Church,&rdquo; is, IMO, one of the most beautiful songs ever written. It talks about faith, romantic love, and the human condition. Oh, and if you haven&rsquo;t seen dancer Sergei Polunin&rsquo;s performance to this song, you&rsquo;ve got to watch it right now. Seriously&mdash;drop everything you&rsquo;re doing and watch it.</font><br /></font><br /></div>  <div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:73.766233766234%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div class="wsite-youtube" style="margin-bottom:10px;margin-top:10px;"><div class="wsite-youtube-wrapper wsite-youtube-size-auto wsite-youtube-align-center"> <div class="wsite-youtube-container">  <iframe src="//www.youtube.com/embed/c-tW0CkvdDI?wmode=opaque" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe> </div> </div></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:26.233766233766%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div class="wsite-spacer" style="height:50px;"></div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font size="3"><font color="#3f3f3f" style="">Mind-blowing, isn&rsquo;t it?<br /><br />And now, a few snippets from my favorite songs by Cyril.<br /><br /><strong style=""><span>Stray Dog</span></strong><br /><br />Grooming is for poodles,<br />Training is for hounds.<br />I traded my leash for dignity.<br />Got any scraps, anyone?<br /><br /><strong style=""><span>Under My Skin</span></strong><br /><br />I&rsquo;m ablaze drowning in the ocean,<br />I&rsquo;m adrift pacing in my room,<br />In my heart only one emotion</font><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">--</span><br /><font color="#3f3f3f">Every<br />night I<br />crave<br />you,<br />Like a crazed wolf howling at the moon.<br />You&rsquo;re under my skin</font><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">--</span><br /><font color="#3f3f3f">tattooed.<br /><br /><strong><span>Maybe I&rsquo;m the One</span></strong><br /><br />Baby, come and sit with me</font><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">--</span><br /><font color="#3f3f3f">here in the sun.<br />Baby, let me ease your pain.<br />Maybe I&rsquo;m the one . . .<br /><br /><strong><span>So Free</span></strong><br /><br />A gaping window.&nbsp;<br />A gauze curtain<br />Slips outside, flaps<br />and hurtles<br />Toward the star-filled<br />heart<br />of the night.<br /><br />Riding the evening breeze,<br />Into the outer space,<br />Planting a white-hot kiss<br />Onto the moon&rsquo;s sweet face.<br /><br />And if I didn&rsquo;t<br />know better,<br />I&rsquo;d bet it soared<br />untethered--<br />So free it seems.<br />So free.<br />It seems.</font><br /><br />* * *<br />&#8203;<br /><font color="#3f3f3f"><span>If you&rsquo;re inspired to put any of these lyrics to music and record a song, knock yourself out&mdash;and be sure to send me the link!</span></font><br /></font><br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Waiters' Race]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/the-waiters-race]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/the-waiters-race#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 08 Dec 2014 12:27:08 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/the-waiters-race</guid><description><![CDATA[The first Waiters&rsquo; Race,&nbsp;La Course des Gar&ccedil;ons de Caf&eacute;,&nbsp;took place in Paris in the 1920s.&#8203;Waiters, in proper waiter attire, rushed to the finish line carrying a tray of glasses. The aim was to get there without breaking a glass or spilling a drink.&nbsp;      Paul Louis   After a hiatus, the race returned to Paris in 2011.&nbsp;Here&nbsp;is a video of the historic event.&nbsp;Sponsored by Orangina, the event attracted thousands of spectators and hundreds of pa [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph" style="text-align:justify;"><font color="#3f3f3f" size="3">The first Waiters&rsquo; Race,&nbsp;<em style="">La Course des Gar&ccedil;ons de Caf&eacute;,&nbsp;</em>took place in Paris in the 1920s.<br /><br />&#8203;Waiters, in proper waiter attire, rushed to the finish line carrying a tray of glasses. The aim was to get there without breaking a glass or spilling a drink.&nbsp;</font></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.alixnichols.com/uploads/1/8/0/7/18073067/1418045256.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%">Paul Louis</div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font size="3"><font color="#3f3f3f" style="">After a hiatus, the race returned to Paris in 2011.&nbsp;<a href="http://www.waitersrace.com/waiters-race-paris-2011" target="_blank" style="">Here&nbsp;</a>is a video of the historic event.&nbsp;</font><font color="#3f3f3f" style="">Sponsored by <em style="">Orangina</em>, the event attracted thousands of spectators and hundreds of participants.&nbsp;</font></font></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:justify;"><font color="#3f3f3f" size="3">The 2011 race started at the magnificent<strong> Place des Vosges </strong>in the Marais district. It&rsquo;s the oldest and, in my humble opinion, most beautiful square in Paris. Built by King Henri IV in the early 17th century, the Place des Vosges is perfectly square and strikingly symmetrical. Thirty-six red-brick-and-white-stone buildings border the <em>place</em>, and their steep slate roofs, dormer windows, and arcades will charm the most jaded of visitors.</font></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.alixnichols.com/uploads/1/8/0/7/18073067/1418045550.png" alt="Place des Vosges" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%">Anastasia Petrova / Shutterstock.com</div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:justify;"><font size="3"><font color="#3f3f3f" style="">Just like in the 1920s, the participants in the 2011 edition wore starched white shirts, bowties, aprons, and shiny black shoes. They walked as fast as possible (a Parisian waiter NEVER runs), holding a loaded wooden tray.<br /><br />On the tray, they carried a bottle of <em style="">Orangina&nbsp;</em>(granted, <em style="">Orangina </em>didn't exist until the 1930s, but that&rsquo;s a minor detail) and two full glasses. The goal was to beat the competitors to the finish line without spilling the contents of the tray.&nbsp;</font><br /><br /><font color="#3f3f3f" style="">The 2011 event inspired the waiters&rsquo; race in <a href="https://amzn.to/42MstiN" target="_blank"><strong><em>Under My Skin </em></strong><em>(Bistro La Boh&egrave;me, book 4)</em>,</a> which was won by the eponymous bistro.&nbsp;</font><br /><br /><font color="#3f3f3f" style=""><em style="">&Eacute;videmment</em>.&nbsp;</font></font></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Love Paris? Here’s How to Make it Love You Back]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/how-to-win-parisians-over]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/how-to-win-parisians-over#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 Oct 2014 16:51:30 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/how-to-win-parisians-over</guid><description><![CDATA[Audrey Hepburn says in Sabrina, “Paris is always a good idea.” Most would agree… except those whose Parisian dream turned into a huge letdown.When Lena, the heroine of my novel What If It’s Love? (Bistro La Bohème, book 2) arrives in Paris, she’s thrilled, even though she has been to the City of Light before. But this time is different. Lena plans to settle in for at least a couple of months, maybe a year, and experience Paris as a local.You'd be surprised how doable that is. All you  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none" style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"><a><img src="https://www.alixnichols.com/uploads/1/8/0/7/18073067/published/1874362.jpg?1779632556" alt="Picture" style="width:457;max-width:100%"></a><div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div></div></div><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font size="3"><span style="color: rgb(63, 63, 63);">Audrey Hepburn says in</span> <em style="color: rgb(63, 63, 63);">Sabrina</em><span style="color: rgb(63, 63, 63);">, &ldquo;Paris is always a good idea.&rdquo; Most would agree&hellip; except those whose Parisian dream turned into a huge letdown.</span><br><br><font color="#3F3F3F" style="">When Lena, the heroine of my novel <a href="https://amzn.to/42MstiN" target="_blank"><em>What If It&rsquo;s Love</em>? (Bistro La Boh&egrave;me, book 2)</a> arrives in Paris, she&rsquo;s thrilled, even though she has been to the City of Light before. But this time is different. Lena plans to settle in for at least a couple of months, maybe a year, and experience Paris as a local.</font><br><br><font color="#3F3F3F" style="">You'd be surprised how doable that is. All you need to do is follow three ground rules that form an <em style="">open sesame</em> to the hearts of Parisians.&nbsp;</font></font></div><h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:left;"><strong><span>Ground Rule # 1: Appearances matter in Paris. A lot. So, make sure yours doesn&rsquo;t scream, &ldquo;I&rsquo;m a foreign dork. Despise me!&rdquo;&nbsp;</span></strong></h2><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font size="3"><font color="#3F3F3F" style="">In other words, avoid looking like a dowdy schoolmarm or a tramp. Instead:<br><br>&nbsp; &nbsp; <strong style="">a. Wear elegant clothes, shoes, and accessories.</strong></font><br><br><font color="#3F3F3F" style="">They don&rsquo;t have to be expensive. You&rsquo;re telling Parisians about your good taste, not the size of your pocketbook.&nbsp;</font><br><br><font color="#3F3F3F" style="">So go ahead and ditch that fanny pack and those hideous Velcro sandals&hellip; unless you&rsquo;re into men who pair shorts with long socks and the aforementioned Velcro sandals.&nbsp;</font><br><br><font color="#3F3F3F" style="">&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;<strong>b. Don&rsquo;t</strong> <strong>show too much skin.</strong></font><br><br><font color="#3F3F3F" style="">Parisian women dress coquettishly but conservatively. When they show off their tanned legs, they cover the cleavage; when they don a strapless top, they pair it with pants or a long skirt.<br><br>If you go out wearing a micro-skirt / crop top combo, you&rsquo;ll attract attention, all right.<br><br>But you&rsquo;ll repel the kind of Frenchman who&rsquo;d want to show you sights other than his bedroom.&nbsp;</font></font></div><h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:left;"><strong><span>Ground Rule # 2: Show respect to waiters and shopkeepers</span></strong></h2><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font size="3"><font color="#3F3F3F" style="">In shops, say <em style="">bonjour</em> to the shopkeeper before conducting your business. If you skip the greeting, he or she will find a way to punish you. It may be a small way, such as making you wait, but it can also be something nastier. A shopkeeper who decides you&rsquo;re an arrogant bitch won&rsquo;t hesitate to foist a stale croissant on you.<br><br>In caf&eacute;s and restaurants, NEVER snap your fingers and shout &ldquo;<em style="">Gar&ccedil;on</em>!&rdquo; to attract the attention of a waiter. Doing so might have been OK in Maupassant&rsquo;s day, but it&rsquo;s a definite no-no today.<br><br>Remember: an aggravated waiter can do some depraved things to your drink and food. That is, if he ever deigns to take your order.<br><br>It&rsquo;s safe to call servers Monsieur or Madame. A <em style="">"s</em>&rsquo;il vous pla&icirc;t"</font></font> and a raised hand work too<font color="#3F3F3F" style="">.&nbsp;</font></div><div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin" style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"><a><img src="https://www.alixnichols.com/uploads/1/8/0/7/18073067/published/7256563.jpg?1779633076" alt="Picture" style="width:315;max-width:100%"></a><div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div></div></div><h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:left;"><strong><span>Ground Rule # 3: Communicate with tact and patience</span></strong></h2><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font size="3"><font color="#3F3F3F" style="">Don&rsquo;t expect the locals to strike up a conversation with you in a bar, bakery line or the <em style="">m&eacute;tro</em>&hellip; unless you&rsquo;re wearing a micro-skirt and a crop top.<br><br>In which case, please refer to # 1.b above.<br><br>Don&rsquo;t smile at random passersby. They&rsquo;ll think you&rsquo;re crazy. Do smile at people you&rsquo;ve seen more than once in your neighborhood. Do say <em style="">bonjour</em> to someone you run into regularly in your local caf&eacute; or convenience store. If the person greets you back, try commenting on the weather or cracking a joke.</font><br><br></font> <font color="#3F3F3F"><font size="3">Provided you don&rsquo;t look like a foreign dork (see # 1.a above), you may get a friendly reply or a chuckle, which may lead to a chat, a helpful tip or an invitation to a Neighbors&rsquo; F&ecirc;te.</font></font></div><div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin" style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"><a><img src="https://www.alixnichols.com/uploads/1/8/0/7/18073067/6292883.jpg?509" alt="Picture" style="width:509;max-width:100%"></a><div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div></div></div><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font size="3"><span><font color="#3F3F3F">That&rsquo;s it. F</font></span><span style="color:rgb(63, 63, 63)">ollow these three ground rules, and Paris will open its arms to you.&nbsp;</span></font></div><div><div id="813176999119622803" align="left" style="width: 100%; overflow-y: hidden;" class="wcustomhtml"><span class='st_facebook_hcount' displaytext='Facebook'></span> <span class='st_twitter_hcount' displaytext='Tweet'></span> <span class='st_pinterest_hcount' displaytext='Pinterest'></span> <span class='st_email_hcount' displaytext='Email'></span></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Ode to the Beta Male]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/beta-male]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/beta-male#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 21 Aug 2014 14:13:17 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.alixnichols.com/blog/beta-male</guid><description><![CDATA[Almost every woman has, at some point, wanted a tall, dark, and brooding Alpha Male. Think Mr. Darcy and Mr. Big.The thing is, in real life we might be much better off falling for a Beta.Hear me out.(By the way, that's Adrien in the picture, the chess-playing Beta male from my novella You're the One, free to newsletter subscribers).&nbsp;But what's a Beta, anyway, you might ask?Let me start by describing what the Beta male is NOT.​He isn’t a permanently battle-ready, headstrong, testosterone [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font color="#2A2A2A" size="3">Almost every woman has, at some point, wanted a tall, dark, and brooding Alpha Male. Think Mr. Darcy and Mr. Big.<br><br>The thing is, in real life we might be much better off falling for a Beta.<br><br>Hear me out.</font></div><div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin" style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"><a><img src="https://www.alixnichols.com/uploads/1/8/0/7/18073067/editor/chess2-sq-medium.jpeg?1779631414" alt="Picture" style="width:492;max-width:100%"></a><div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div></div></div><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><font color="#626262" size="3">(By the way, that's Adrien in the picture, the chess-playing Beta male from my novella <a href="https://www.alixnichols.com/freebies.html" target="_blank" style=""><em><strong>You're the One</strong></em>, free to newsletter subscribers)</a>.&nbsp;</font></div><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font color="#2A2A2A" size="3">But what's a Beta, anyway, you might ask?<br><br>Let me start by describing what the Beta male is NOT.<br><br>&#8203;He isn&rsquo;t a permanently battle-ready, headstrong, testosterone-oozing warrior type, cruelly lacking in sensitivity and subtlety.&nbsp;<br><br>He's also less common than the Alpha male.&nbsp;<br><br>Why?&nbsp;<br><br><em style="">Evolution, baby.</em> <em>&nbsp;</em><br><br>In prehistoric times, the Alpha had a greater chance of surviving. Having survived, often by killing a scary beast or a grabby rival, he'd become Big Boss and get the corner cave.&nbsp;<br><br>Naturally, he'd also pick the most desirable female and try his luck at reproducing.&nbsp;<br><br>The Alpha male is the hero of most romance books and, of course, action movies. Daniel Craig comes to mind. Channing Tatum, too.&nbsp;<br><br>In stark contrast to the Alpha, the Beta male is quiet and sensitive. He stays in the background. He can be strong and good-looking, but in a low-key, unassuming way. He&rsquo;s never a bully. Which doesn&rsquo;t mean he&rsquo;s a coward with no self-respect.&nbsp;<br><br>In centuries past, the Beta male would have been a shaman, a monk or a bard. Today&rsquo;s Beta often goes by &ldquo;geek&rdquo;, &ldquo;nerd&rdquo; or &ldquo;shy guy&rdquo;. What he lacks in testosterone he makes up for in ingenuity and humor. He can be as successful as the next Alpha, but he won't go around puffing his chest and roaring at the top of his voice about his exploits.<br><br>If you haven't yet met him in real life, you must have seen him in romantic comedies. Pick any male lead played by Paul Rudd, Justin Timberlake or Matthew Perry, and you have him.<br><br>These days, women want it all: equal rights, a fulfilling career and a family. There&rsquo;s nothing wrong with that. Thankfully, technology has made the traditional division of labor between the sexes, save for breastfeeding, entirely optional.<br><br>The trouble is that many of us want it all, plus an Alpha male at our side. It's as if some remote, dark part of our brain still refuses to believe we&rsquo;d survive without a protector in this big, big world. As if we still expected a saber-toothed tiger to lurk in the darkness behind the bushes.</font></div><div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"><table class="wsite-multicol-table"><tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"><tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"><td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"><div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin" style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"><a><img src="https://www.alixnichols.com/uploads/1/8/0/7/18073067/9544146.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%"></a><div style="display:block;font-size:90%">Imagination</div></div></div></td><td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"><div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin" style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"><a><img src="https://www.alixnichols.com/uploads/1/8/0/7/18073067/published/8892255.jpg?1779631728" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%"></a><div style="display:block;font-size:90%">Reality</div></div></div></td></tr></tbody></table></div></div></div><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font color="#2A2A2A" size="3">I'm not saying the modern world is completely safe for women. But a frail damsel with a gun or a Taser can protect herself from the hulkiest hulk, if you catch my drift.&nbsp;<br><br>Yet this ancient, &ldquo;lizard&rdquo; part of our brain still makes us want an Alpha male to protect us (and our babies, as the case may be).<br><br><em style="">Fair enough.<span>&nbsp;</span></em><br><br>But here's the catch: today, we also want that Alpha to respect and understand us. We want him to notice our new haircut and do the dishes. We&rsquo;d like him to be sweet AND authoritarian, trusting AND jealous, rakish AND loyal, seeking our opinion AND all-knowing, emotionally available BUT not whiny, sharing BUT not gossipy&hellip;&nbsp;<br><br>That's a tall order, don't you think?<br><br>So, here's my point: the answer to the modern woman's conundrum may be the Beta Male.<br><br>He is not a chimera. There have been numerous well-documented sightings in every city and town. There's abundant video footage, eyewitness accounts, wedding albums and social media posts that prove he exists, and can be found in public places such as caf&eacute;s, gyms, bookshops and theaters.&nbsp;<br><br>The Beta male is gentle (not to be confused with weak), kind and reliable. If he falls for you, he won&rsquo;t let you down. He&rsquo;ll stand by your side &mdash; as a caring partner, not an overbearing protector. He&rsquo;ll respect your choices, personal space and career.<br><br>He's Mr. Bingley in jeans.&nbsp;<br><br>And he can make a modern-day Jane very happy indeed.</font></div><div><div id="181968600871667830" align="left" style="width: 100%; overflow-y: hidden;" class="wcustomhtml"><span class='st_facebook_hcount' displaytext='Facebook'></span> <span class='st_twitter_hcount' displaytext='Tweet'></span> <span class='st_pinterest_hcount' displaytext='Pinterest'></span> <span class='st_email_hcount' displaytext='Email'></span></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>